Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Chen Huilin exposes to the sun 7 years to talk about marriage oneself

Should the sexual behavior before marriage have after all?
Long-term since, schoolgirls are admonished to want to if jade spends candle till bridal chamber,defend a body by elder earnestly and tirelessly, lest only then abandon eventually in disorder, lifetime misfortune. And now, public morals suddenly easy, before marriage taste forbidden fruit early with male friend, already became in current city female " of course " . A lot of example of real world also point to a fact, the body is defended to be like jade before marriage namely, the may not after marriage is happy, the Chang Xianghuan before marriage loves, also may not with respect to lifetime misfortune. A few fashionable young woman advocate even: Without sexual love, marry anything but! Their view may not does not have a truth: To marriage hind whether achieve sexual harmony to not be clear about " blind marriage is dumb marry " , can you ensure marriage is happy how?
Age issue 1
"Pure " make my go astray
Nuncupative / Duan Xiawen / Chen Ying
Perhaps be the chasteness because of first love, so I and Dou Pengyun university the 4 distances that in learning, keep certain from beginning to end. Although ever also had had affectionate, but we overcome every hour to the key sensibly come down. In those days, there are a lot of sweetheartses to make public in the university or semi-overt outer hire a room to live together, live the sweet easy life of a small family that occupy the home.
Sometimes we also very the fun that the sweetness that envies bound of 2 the world and fellow of ear hair on the temples grind, but after all our family education is very strict, especially I am right after graduation whether together all the time the heart has scruple. Then, I and Dou Pengyun reached an agreement, want an university to graduate only we marry immediately, do not have sex absolutely before marriage.
Qiu Yizheng is thick 2000, graduation only the hall that we crossed marriage after a few months. After wedding passed that day, sent a guest, we are bashful hasty however ground hurrieds back bridal chamber. The pink bulb in the room of narrow warmth is shining blurredly, flushed each other bashful face. 4 eye are opposite, we see the light of the flash in eye of the other side.
The Dou Pengyun of unable to hold oneself back having a place holds me in the arms from door mouth rise, in me side side says intimately: "Eventually when this day. " my beautiful laughs, speak the ground says: "Look you urgent, waited so old, also not be afraid of much romance a little while... " had not waited for me to say, dou Pengyun's mouth had been greeted, stemmed my mouth.
Because the atmosphere of newly-married is too romantic,perhaps be, this kiss brings us the excitement that never passes. The volcano that he is boiling like move more is ebullient come over to me. And let my absolutely did not think of, ferial he of li of considerate Zhou Dao exchanged a pair of look actually, disregard completely reach me to ache so that exert all one's strength to cry, accept sth uncritically is like ground embezzlement I. When Dou Pengyun dog-tired decadent comes down when, my tear is hit already wet pillow towel.
Until at this moment, what Dou Pengyun just discovers me is unusual. He extends arm annulus to live rapidly I, say persistently to me, "I am sorry, I a moment ago too rash, did not cry? " although a moment ago was returned in the heart very angry his harum-scarum, can think of to return the night that is newly-married after all, he also is mixed is first time like me, my reluctance smile through tears.
After that, dou Pengyun although every time sedulous tolerance, but in a few minutes he rises without any consideration again. At the moment, sexual love to me more resemble be a heart blending, I not excessive is begged more do not know it can have how the charm of cannot help doing sth letting a person. Those ten minutes incommensurate, I besides bear have no other way.
More abhorrent is, dou Pengyun exposes the way of old man creed that gives him gradually, not only ferial in gesticulate to me, in sexual life more disregard those who reach me to experience. He resembles a Mang Fu, flirt and be being caressed is redundant to him.
Once, I read the magazine that gets along about sexual love of husband and wife originally intentionally to him, but every time he one face distains the ground is lost aside, say next: "Your woman does this with respect to love, want us to had felt to go now only, slant why should learn a family! " I can't help angry murmur: "It is you had felt, had you thought my feeling? " the about that looks at my one face discontent and indignation, dou Pengyun instead more feel I am idle extremely dull, one twitch one's mouth manages no longer I.
Gradually, I begin to regret a bit, if know his weakness a bit earlier, probably unapt also so sad now. In sexual love be not respected, make me more and more malcontent to Dou Pengyun mix complain, subsequently the minor details that outspread and excellent front courtyard lives. Perpetual brawl let us produce ill feeling of be disgusted with to each other.
2001 the Spring Festival when, because I worked busy body exhaustion to reject Dou Pengyun toughly to seek joyous idea before the section, he what gas pole rots has pulled actually my body, depressed tone says fuggily: "You are my wife, be about this is compulsory! " I make systemic effort is pushed hit him, however unexpectedly this is more exasperate instead he, he is abrupt the neck that a hand blocks me, another hand tall soar rises, say crabbily: "Doesn't your letter believe me to hit you? " I am slow-witted, at this moment he resembles a crude beast unexpectedly. Perhaps be the look that sees I am innocent, perhaps be be aware of oneself nohow, his hand was put slowly, face about cheats a head to sleep.
That one night, I cry out of breath, and Dou Pengyun is in pretend aside whats were heard like. If thinking of he says, I can't help shuddering. What taste does such life still have? When the day shines quickly, I generate the idea of the divorce suddenly.
I know Dou Pengyun also was not asleep, in darkness, I say coldly: "We divorce, I again intolerable also such life. " as expected, his body slightly quake, say: "The divorce perhaps is right choice, I did not think of you are a so feigned woman really, it is a frigidity at all. " his word invites my be left without an argument.
After a month, we got divorce card. Will a few years love each other the sweetness that get along, easily by sexual love disharmonious break, look at Dou Pengyun to go gradually gradually far back, the 100 flavour in my heart are miscellaneous old. If he knows before marriage " quality " heart, can I still go by this marriage? Perhaps, just about before marriage " pure " make my go astray.
Age issue 2
Disaccord " operation " man marriage
Civil / bell child
When the university just graduates, I follow Xie Jun have a love affair, he is the manager of an IT company, a meter of figure of 8, have delicate features, favorite to me have add, he is my first love, in him affectionately contains the eyes of affection to fall, I am confused completely drunk, what I think this is love is all. Pulling his hand, I feel this is the seas run dry and the rocks crumble momently constantly. "I can give you forever happiness. " the face that he is holding me in both hands gently constantly, speak this oath softly.

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