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Choose idol view, marriage view is the reflection of social value orientaton.
"80 hind " , namely the youth that 80 time are born. This generation person is striding slowly the age that talks about marriage talking to marry, the pay attention to and asks to marriage diversity that they live to marital material, the pick that gives a tradition occasionally value sense caused certain impact. In parents one generation looks, these do not have care from small back and belly, emphasize ego be a center, listening to R%26amp;B, hitting network game to grow the youth that rise, on the choice of marital important matter, do not let a person be at ease indeed.
In fact, they are already mature, show person of their this generation's peculiar choose to be watched occasionally fully from inside their brief conversation, have advance guard, also have the continuance of traditional idea. Accompanying ceaseless development of the society, the choose of not coetaneous people occasionally the idea is in the change that producing to differ: From at the outset heavy family family background arrives the heavy diploma later, arrive from heavy diploma serious money, arrive from serious money again heavy ability, heavy grade, heavy interest... the changes of the change that is socioeconomy condition and social culture caused idea of love of every generation person to change somewhat.
"Character of a piece of diploma, 2 mandarin (perfectness English) , 3 rooms famous brand of one hall, the four seasons, facial features is regular, 66 (fall fall) easy, 7000 monthly pay, smooth and slick, 9 (wine) smoke is not touched, very frank. " this was a few days ago " Chinese news weekly " on publish about " 80 hind " girl choose speaks one kind of the standard occasionally view. Although part speaks, but mirror instead from a flank however " 80 hind " people the change that choose watchs occasionally, recently, the reporter is mixed through the network come from different city " 80 hind " the topic that had marriage a little.
Treat marriage owner
Net name: Lion children 1984 stranger
I am right prospective marriage, do not have too clear idea at present. Always feel not quite anxious still. I marry him ideal the age is in surely 26~28 year old. Feel two people are together more namely the sort of building the side gets along, because love may be very few can from only then to eventually, arrived certain level love is close affection with respect to change. Accordingly, I do not want to look for each in the future oneself is special of love, because in that way what I can live is very tired, I think, seek the person with him some more love meeting happiness is some more.
Net name: Wing male 1981 stranger
I am pessimistic to understanding both neither of marriage, not hopeful also. I think, marital both neither is emotive crystallization, also not be the graveyard of love, marriage just begins, a brand-new beginning, the change of position of a life. If walk into marriage, so each other want faithfulness opposite. In positional respect, both sides is equal, encounter a thing to be about to be communicated each other, cannot be concealed quite or be opposite be indifferent to sth of the other side, both sides should have the care of meticulously and care, such, marital ability continues, become the marriage with one perfect picket.
Net name: Peaceful children 1982 stranger
The little sister is less than me two years old, this year 21 years old, just held wedding in home town. 21 years old marry, to urbanite, the likelihood is a little early. But, this home town in me is very regular job.
The small town that in us this economy lags behind relatively, resemble a little sister in that way, the person that can admire in the heart with oneself marries not much, a few youths still are as good as parent choose boy or girl friend gets married.
Actually, the little sister's marriage ever objected strongly of parents by. The little sister that works when far outer ground comes home male friendly belt, allude to parents when this picket marriage, parents objects consistently. Parents thinks: The little sister is acquainted lifelong resign to only male friend of 1 year too too cursory. Look in them, the marriage that the daughter can have to guard a pass by them just is met happy and perfect. But final, in the little sister insist to fall, be very fond of the daughter's parents or chose concession.
I Beijing reads an university now, although the little sister's marriage is a little abrupt to me, but I support a little sister. Oneself marriage wants him to hold namely.
Net name: 2 Lang Nan 1983 stranger
I am more traditional to marriage, the sort of I am unaccustomed playing the manner that employs to calculate, though if two people are together,I also admit improper still part as soon as possible, but I still feel two people still consider cautiously had better, no matter be,marry or divorce.
Net name: Afterglow daughter 1983 stranger
Marrying because of love is a kind of ideal mode, I am a realer person, I believe love not quite.
Choose a partner, pay attention to responsibility heart and economic base
Net name: Children of black tea bowl 1984 stranger
He must conscientious, must compare me outstanding, want a career to have. I look for a person that does not have enough economy base impossibly to marry, the husband is different from male friend, male friend need not buy car concern to buy a house, need not carry overweight responsibility for provide for parents more, but the man is different. Apprentice has love and the marriage without economic base support is won't happy.
Net name: Refined and courteous female 1984 stranger
My ideal marries the viewpoint that the object can apply management to learn will generalize: Everybody has to locate and expect an end basically in the heart, be searched next according to these, once the feeling adds psychology to locate in harmony can continue to interact then, become thorough knowledge.
Marriage is commutative actually good-tempered understanding, increase the sense of responsibility to the family. Sense of responsibility is attached most importance to especially to the man should, a few men do not have domestic idea, do as one wants, be in so before marrying must test the other side, the most important is bearing, the off the rails probability after bearing good marriage is small also.
Look in me, some resemble marriage gamble, some people all one's life happy compensate went in, but some people obtained lifelong happiness however, it is right that everybody says bad after all marriage so it is wrong, I feel this also depends on the individual's viewpoint of value, world outlook, philosophy, after all the person always likes and oneself are about the same the person of the type, such both sides can have common language and interest, communication of it may not be a bad idea.
Net name: Afterglow daughter 1983 stranger
My spouse should have economic base, humanness is decent, not coarse, do not smoke excessive drinking. And visit the home even, give presents parents, also can dominate oneself action when choler, know self-surrender I. Net name: Xiao Henan 1986 stranger
The spouse that I did not come to had better be a more independent girl, want bright logic, optimistic and easy, can get along. Tell the truth, when the male considers marriage, very won't slashing to the requirement of appearance of the other side.
Partake domestic responsibility stresses equality and independence
Net name: Wing male 1981 stranger
No matter the male, still be a female, should bear the weight of after marry the obligation that the place before having marriage did not assume. If married in the future, I can use up myself to be able to be assumed more a few.
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