The escaped criminal on net of the bestow favours outside the law gets married as scheduled

On April 19, a big public house of golden hall town is lively and extraordinary, capacity audience of the Gao Peng inside the hall, in everybody fix eyes upon below, walk into newly-married hall to bridegroom bride. On wedding, bridegroom Zhang Jian sighs with emotion in deliver a speech: "Acknowledgment is wide Chinese procuratorate, their human nature changes if it were not for execute the law, I still am in a detention house now, hold wedding impossibly that with me beloved wife is here at all. " bridegroom how should thank a procuratorate? So he is the escaped criminal on the net that an error commits a crime, before great rejoicing, the procuratorate is special bestow favours, zhang Jian walks out of a detention house, get married smoothly.
Die two injuries driver absent of front courtyard careful
On May 24, 1998, the Zhang Jian that lives in golden hall county drives a van by new leave for small Chinese town pulls sand. 8 when 10 minutes, go to big Lu Xiaohan when the car paragraph when, with right to avoid photograph of a car is hanged and towards the left hits Zhang Jian direction, unexpectedly speed is too fast, van crosses band of segregation of big road center, with sail relatively barge against of a when come small passenger car, cause small bus driver 10 thousand some dies on the spot, the two passengers inside the car are weighed, zhang Jianli calls namely call the police.
Wide cognizance Zhang Jian should assume group of Chinese city policeman the accident is complete duty, zhang Jian compensate paid the dead 10 thousand some family members 30 thousand multivariate. In those days September, two person that hurt leave hospital, medical treatment cost costs in all 90 thousand multivariate. As a result of the person that hurt and cause trouble car advocate did not reach unanimous opinion with respect to compensation, the person that hurt mixes Zhangjian cause trouble car advocate tell a court, however the Zhang Jian when front courtyard careful does not know whereaboutldirection. Wide Chinese police is given out assist check a bulletin, label its the escaped criminal on the net. Cause trouble car advocate the person that mix finally reachs unanimous opinion, the person that one-time compensate pays 50 thousand yuan.
Do bridegroom of marriage certificate problem to fall the arm of the law
This year on April 13, handle a marriage certificate to young men and women. Policeman of window handling card discovers when checking a full name Zhang Jian fastens the escaped criminal on the net, piece be blocked to obtain at once. Right now, bridal invitation card already was given out, ordered 39 desks wedding breakfast, family is obliged to pretend bridegroom body is bad, toughen one's scalp-brace oneself pushed the guest entirely.
On April 18, zhang Jian by wide Chinese city procuratorate is examined sue. That day, zhang Jian's family member cherishs last hope to come to the procuratorate, application conducts await trial of be bailed out for Zhang Jian, so that Zhang Jianshun benefit gets married. The situation is special, wide Chinese city procuratorate considers to think, behavior of cause trouble of Zhang Jian traffic belongs to error to commit a crime, not big to social harm sex, to rescue Zhangjian and whole family, can implement the criminal policy of light delay to Zhang Jian. That day afternoon 6 when make, after dealing with relevant formalities, zhang Jian is released to come home. Family the same night informs close friends comes round to eat wedding feast.
Traffic accident be out of pocket may be returned so that be imprisoned
Zhang Jian tells to handle a case personnel, after accident of that traffic 8 years ago happens, he had civil compensation lawfully to the dead, think the job that leave should be handled by car boss, so he works to Guangzhou, know police is in far from order circularly the arrest of a criminal at large he. Wide Chinese city procuratorate handles a case inquisitor expresses, case of a few great traffic accident, involve civil compensation not merely, still involve criminal liability likely, party should cooperate a judiciary actively to make a thorough investigation of case.
Introduce according to procuratorial work mechanism, at present they are undertaking investigating to case of this traffic cause trouble, will make to Zhang Jian likely do not sue a decision.

Talk of Li Jiaxin laugh is the most romantic without the wedding of media

Recently, hong Kong stars Li Jiaxin shows body Guangzhou to attend an activity, she of sweet carry pawn is radiant, wait for those who accepted media reporter to interview around love, marriage.
Of short duration does not marry
Review 2006, the it doesn't matter on character job breaks through Li Jiaxin calm, however lacy news is more, she says: "I will promise to be able to encounter white horse prince when birthday last year in June, did not think of to come true very quickly. " be asked about whether to consider to enter knot wedding hall, li Jiaxin denies: "I had not thought temporarily. I still like to pat protraction a few, it is good to arrange its nature otherly. It is good to arrange its nature otherly..

To Xu Ziqi is high-key a few days ago marry rich and powerful family, li Jiaxin says easily: "Wedding is temporarily bright, and the romance that marriage should be generation is happy, I very for her glad. " hope to have a what kind of wedding as to oneself, li Jiaxin laugh says: "The wedding that does not have media is the most romantic. "The wedding that does not have media is the most romantic..
Very much star marries Hong Kong to exit recreation to encircle into the metropolis after rich and powerful family, li Jiaxin says however: "If have so a day, I hope to keep my job, in this industry so long, certain workload can make him some happier. So, the other in part of hope future can forgive. " the amour of respecting female star and plute is not valued normally, ground of not care a nut says Li Jiaxin: "Because myself is very capable, had never wanted to want to seek a piece of mess card so, what I want is love, no matter people looks,do not value. More what is more,the rather that people looks to be not valued won't affect final result, be opposite so for me, good along with the heart. Good along with the heart..
Marry first second birth darling
To coming New Year, li Jiaxin states meeting and friend hold a small-sized clique to be opposite together, but had not discussed this one issue with male friendly Xu Jinheng. The reporter asks can be bound of 2 the world only, the Li Jiaxin that there is sweetness from beginning to end on the face shakes his head say: "Political integrity day should not play those who be missing, nevertheless, we should be met pass together. We should be met pass together..
40 years old of many female stars of the left and right sides in group of nearly two years of entertainment bear children in succession, to this, li Jiaxin states he won't give birth to darling temporarily however. Nevertheless she expresses: "Had baby really actually I also won't abandon, if can give birth to a small Jia Xin, I can thank God, but at present this is not in my plan. " maiden first pregnant, li Jiaxin says seriously: "If can choose, I hope to be able to follow a tradition, because do not hope my mom is not happy. She hopes I can marry first second birth darling, resemble her same. Resemble her same..
Go out certainly act " happy treasure "
" Du Shiniang " later, people is made newly with respect to what see Li Jiaxin rarely. Speak of the job, li Jiaxin divulges next year can go to the United States filming in January a advertisement. The play of movie and TV has all the time talk, but more affirmatory is to be able to give the 30 collect TV series that performs Wen Juan to adapt Yi Shu " happy treasure " . She says: "This part has challenge sex very much to me, because be,act from Xiaoshi middleaged, the variation of the mood is more complex. " to the society theres is no lack of nowadays the schoolgirl of type happy treasure, li Jiaxin says: "Everybody has different viewpoint of value, I feel the schoolgirl also should have enterprise, relying on others is slippery. Feeling of course
Since Li Jiaxin goes out oneself all the time by " elder sister of the most beautiful harbor " halo is enveloped, to so much year maintain such one build to hold all the time whether very painstaking, her not worry at all: "Others gives title, I feel birth is natural, not terrible, need not be maintained painstakingly beautiful, it is OK that he feel he are beautiful. It is OK that he feel he are beautiful..

Spring late- Of yellow baronial show and Dong Qing - marry according to

Yesterday, CCTV spring evening undertook couplet of the second half is discharged, partial program first exposure, but the your person such as Zhao Benshan of a lot of such as, Zhou Jielun expects long already big wrist, still fail to show up.

Zhao Benshan essay " torch hand " content exposure

Zhao Benshan essay makes new catchword

The couplet of the second half yesterday is discharged, of red of red of Zhao Benshan, the Song Dynasty, Liu Liu " torch hand " rank among them, but had jumped however when program rehearse comes here, because 3 people are in at that time guesthouse rehearse program. Roll out continuously for Zhao Benshan " Bai Yun, blackland " the playwrite Xu Zhengchao of series essay, had become at present " this hill medium vice-president " , the home reporter in movie and TV saw him yesterday. To this year content of Zhao Benshan essay, xu Zhengchao is very careful, "Before the show, still do not want to be divulged too much. " but he expresses, zhao Benshan and red of red of the Song Dynasty, Liu Liu read a script in night of already advanced day, "Everybody is basic and satisfactory. "Everybody is basic and satisfactory..

Do not cross a reporter or make visit to the content of Zhao Benshan essay from other channel. " torch hand " still series of follow Bai Yun, blackland, as a result of,told about Bai Yun before those who build is famous degree, sign up the choose that joined hand of Olympic Games torch, and the blackland also unwillings to lag behind, sign up together, fail finally to choose however on, and white Yun Shunli is become hand of fire of suffer from excessive internal heat. Thereafter, the blackland is content with, the vinegar of engorge white cloud, two people are troubled by accordingly case at odds. When wanting to attend torch hand to award prize till Bai Yun, two people are more noisy a world-shaking, as a result Bai Yun should run away from home. Talk things over finally through, two people restore good relations, bai Yun also gained the support of the blackland. In the essay this year, what catchword still can appear? The reporter hits explore to arrive to have an actor's lines among them " lift up right leg, kiss " always be repeated, red of red of the Song Dynasty also is be amused so that laugh by this actor's lines bent a waist, did not allow 2011 this word is catchword.

Sea bright sign - gather love airliner takeoff sport is big bowls

Hai Liang strides life new chance to extricateoneself from an awkward position

Exuding tenderness and love through eyes of a pair of new personality

Li Xiaoshuang of Olympic Games champion, Xiong Ni, Li Ning (from left to right) party Hai Liang is bridal.

Jiang Zunsu of editor in chief of group of trade of Hubei daily cable and Li Jianming of director of province sports bureau (left 2) , Zhou Jigong of champion of diving of two acting Olympic Games (left) , Fu Mingxia (right) kind chat.

Jiang Zunsu of editor in chief of group of trade of Hubei daily cable blesses Xiao Hailiang's couple to be fond of knot happy match.

Net of chaste tree Hunan (Hubei daily) last night, capacity audience of high friend of hotel of sweet case lira. This pair of new personality are in Xiao Hailiang of reporter of daily of champion of Olympic Games diving, Hubei and Zhao Li of Oriental airline empty elder sister knot of Chinese happy event manages repeatedly.
Hai Liang in former days Shi Meifu Ming Xia and her husband Liang Jinsong is taking sweet smile to come, 3 coronals Wang Lining came to Olympic Games gymnastics, zhou Jigong of Olympic Games champion, Peng Bo, Li Chunyang, Li Xiaoshuang came, the gold partner that is like Hai Liang to go up in Sydney Olympic Games rebukes Ni came, world champion Yu Zhuocheng came, the leader of group of trade of Hubei daily cable and work in the same placing came... the blessing that they brought happiness, to marry the joyance that the spot brings warmth and joy. " wedding march " since the noise, it is to new personality in beatific sound, in the colour paper that flutter, was on red carpet. Marriage ceremony begins in auspicious atmosphere, charming bridegroom and fine-looking bride are ablaze came on stage to give guest a surprise: Ask to describe a bride in compere " facial ministry compulsory exercise " when, the eye that the sea shines to describe a bride instinctively is very bright, resembling is gold same; Nose is gangplank, high, resembling is the stage that receive award, finish a kiss with the movement when final of diving of an Olympic Games... those who need a specification is, when Hai Liang is finishing this onshore dive, by Shi Meifu Ming Xia holds the position of a judgment.
Jiang Zunsu of editor in chief of group of trade of Hubei daily cable with presiding over a wedding ceremony the person's identity was published on marriage ceremony deliver a speech ebulliently, wonderful blessing earns spot guest a hurrah and an applause; Think will marry the Li Ning that the spot drinks to did not think of to want a talk namely, when did approximately slashing requirement raise to a pair of new personality in ceremonially: Those who give Hai Liang is " do not smoke, do not drink, early come home " . Those who give a pair of newlywed person is " give birth to Olympic Games of a diving champion, unripe an outstanding reporter, unripe elder sister of a beautiful sky " . Amuse the guest below the stage a split one's sides with laughter.
Hai Liang very " cooperate " captious compere, go up to doing obeisance to this one link in husband and wife, requested all favorable articles that do not have benefit the bride almost, make spot guest laughed at a flower. After holding bridal leave a meeting or banquet in the arms, although,Hai Liang says very tired, but thinking of is to holding Olympic Games gold in the arms to come home, had the interest that does not make all over.
In blessing sound in succession, xiao Hailiang of reporter of daily of Olympic Games champion, Hubei strode the new chance to extricateoneself from an awkward position of life again, "Sea bright sign " love airliner takes off eventually. (reporter Xie Hua)
Diving predestined relationship involves 3 acting situation
　　
"Xiong Ni, I and Hai Liang married, does Wang Laowu of your this diamond want when when wow? " the Fu Mingxia that goes up personally in marital Liang Jinsong carries recline gently beautiful women, to Xiong Ni blame. "Not urgent, lot did not arrive. " come on a special trip Chinese the ursine Ni Lianmang that attends Xiao Hailiang wedding answers.
The one buttock after the ursine Ni sitting of the duty that holds deputy director general of bureau of Hunan Province sports concurrently personally sits to the side of Zhou Jigong. Zhou Jigong right, sitting teacher Xiao Aishan, on, sitting Fu Mingxia of champion of diving of 3 Olympic Gameses, the person of 3 acting diving that witnessed Chinese diving carry to change brilliant course, sit so, meeting lot, come from Xiao Hailiang's wedding, this Sydney Olympic Games champion of 3 diving of rice board two-men, the partner of meantime is Xiong Ni. "1984 los angeles Olympic Games, I am Zhou Jigong's coach, she carried off the champion of 10 meters of stages, the gold of diving of first Olympic Games of this since Hubei, also be gold of diving of first Olympic Games. My son Hai Liang is just about below Zhou Jigong's guidance, cooperate with Xiong Ni, carry off champion of Sydney Olympic Games, full 3 acting people. Say, sea bright since my son, it is my disciple's disciple. Ha. " leave off his post locally from director of province sports bureau before long Xiao Aishan to one's heart's content laughs. "Hai Liang is my old comrade-in-arms, be the same as room number again year, his phone, again busy also must come. " move of Xiong Ni laugh says, "Hai Liang big marriage, looked for a beautiful empty a general term for young women again, wish they contribute an outstanding sports talent for the country again. Wish they contribute an outstanding sports talent for the country again..
Sydney Olympic Games, the reporter kisses all previous Fu Mingxia, Xiong Ni, Xiao Hailiang is final on 3 rice board brilliant, day of the number after also witnessing Zhou Jigong of the leader of a sports team to open contest in diving does not have gold, be about to cry tearless is deeply anxious, this meet, it is time of beautiful scene in a good day unexpectedly, when no less than rebukes Ni leaves hurriedly with reporter place character: "Fu Mingxia was married, sea bright marriage, the somebody of afterwards of bright Queen of heaven that China dives! The somebody of afterwards of bright Queen of heaven that China dives!!
The blessing of Fu Mingxia's couple

Rational look upon - 80 - the marital view after

Editor's note:
Choose idol view, marriage view is the reflection of social value orientaton.
"80 hind " , namely the youth that 80 time are born. This generation person is striding slowly the age that talks about marriage talking to marry, the pay attention to and asks to marriage diversity that they live to marital material, the pick that gives a tradition occasionally value sense caused certain impact. In parents one generation looks, these do not have care from small back and belly, emphasize ego be a center, listening to R%26amp;B, hitting network game to grow the youth that rise, on the choice of marital important matter, do not let a person be at ease indeed.
In fact, they are already mature, show person of their this generation's peculiar choose to be watched occasionally fully from inside their brief conversation, have advance guard, also have the continuance of traditional idea. Accompanying ceaseless development of the society, the choose of not coetaneous people occasionally the idea is in the change that producing to differ: From at the outset heavy family family background arrives the heavy diploma later, arrive from heavy diploma serious money, arrive from serious money again heavy ability, heavy grade, heavy interest... the changes of the change that is socioeconomy condition and social culture caused idea of love of every generation person to change somewhat.

"Character of a piece of diploma, 2 mandarin (perfectness English) , 3 rooms famous brand of one hall, the four seasons, facial features is regular, 66 (fall fall) easy, 7000 monthly pay, smooth and slick, 9 (wine) smoke is not touched, very frank. " this was a few days ago " Chinese news weekly " on publish about " 80 hind " girl choose speaks one kind of the standard occasionally view. Although part speaks, but mirror instead from a flank however " 80 hind " people the change that choose watchs occasionally, recently, the reporter is mixed through the network come from different city " 80 hind " the topic that had marriage a little.
Treat marriage owner

Net name: Lion children 1984 stranger
I am right prospective marriage, do not have too clear idea at present. Always feel not quite anxious still. I marry him ideal the age is in surely 26~28 year old. Feel two people are together more namely the sort of building the side gets along, because love may be very few can from only then to eventually, arrived certain level love is close affection with respect to change. Accordingly, I do not want to look for each in the future oneself is special of love, because in that way what I can live is very tired, I think, seek the person with him some more love meeting happiness is some more.

Net name: Wing male 1981 stranger
I am pessimistic to understanding both neither of marriage, not hopeful also. I think, marital both neither is emotive crystallization, also not be the graveyard of love, marriage just begins, a brand-new beginning, the change of position of a life. If walk into marriage, so each other want faithfulness opposite. In positional respect, both sides is equal, encounter a thing to be about to be communicated each other, cannot be concealed quite or be opposite be indifferent to sth of the other side, both sides should have the care of meticulously and care, such, marital ability continues, become the marriage with one perfect picket.

Net name: Peaceful children 1982 stranger
The little sister is less than me two years old, this year 21 years old, just held wedding in home town. 21 years old marry, to urbanite, the likelihood is a little early. But, this home town in me is very regular job.
The small town that in us this economy lags behind relatively, resemble a little sister in that way, the person that can admire in the heart with oneself marries not much, a few youths still are as good as parent choose boy or girl friend gets married.
Actually, the little sister's marriage ever objected strongly of parents by. The little sister that works when far outer ground comes home male friendly belt, allude to parents when this picket marriage, parents objects consistently. Parents thinks: The little sister is acquainted lifelong resign to only male friend of 1 year too too cursory. Look in them, the marriage that the daughter can have to guard a pass by them just is met happy and perfect. But final, in the little sister insist to fall, be very fond of the daughter's parents or chose concession.
I Beijing reads an university now, although the little sister's marriage is a little abrupt to me, but I support a little sister. Oneself marriage wants him to hold namely.

Net name: 2 Lang Nan 1983 stranger
I am more traditional to marriage, the sort of I am unaccustomed playing the manner that employs to calculate, though if two people are together,I also admit improper still part as soon as possible, but I still feel two people still consider cautiously had better, no matter be,marry or divorce.

Net name: Afterglow daughter 1983 stranger
Marrying because of love is a kind of ideal mode, I am a realer person, I believe love not quite.
Choose a partner, pay attention to responsibility heart and economic base

Net name: Children of black tea bowl 1984 stranger
He must conscientious, must compare me outstanding, want a career to have. I look for a person that does not have enough economy base impossibly to marry, the husband is different from male friend, male friend need not buy car concern to buy a house, need not carry overweight responsibility for provide for parents more, but the man is different. Apprentice has love and the marriage without economic base support is won't happy.

Net name: Refined and courteous female 1984 stranger
My ideal marries the viewpoint that the object can apply management to learn will generalize: Everybody has to locate and expect an end basically in the heart, be searched next according to these, once the feeling adds psychology to locate in harmony can continue to interact then, become thorough knowledge.
Marriage is commutative actually good-tempered understanding, increase the sense of responsibility to the family. Sense of responsibility is attached most importance to especially to the man should, a few men do not have domestic idea, do as one wants, be in so before marrying must test the other side, the most important is bearing, the off the rails probability after bearing good marriage is small also.
Look in me, some resemble marriage gamble, some people all one's life happy compensate went in, but some people obtained lifelong happiness however, it is right that everybody says bad after all marriage so it is wrong, I feel this also depends on the individual's viewpoint of value, world outlook, philosophy, after all the person always likes and oneself are about the same the person of the type, such both sides can have common language and interest, communication of it may not be a bad idea.

Net name: Afterglow daughter 1983 stranger
My spouse should have economic base, humanness is decent, not coarse, do not smoke excessive drinking. And visit the home even, give presents parents, also can dominate oneself action when choler, know self-surrender I. Net name: Xiao Henan 1986 stranger
The spouse that I did not come to had better be a more independent girl, want bright logic, optimistic and easy, can get along. Tell the truth, when the male considers marriage, very won't slashing to the requirement of appearance of the other side.
Partake domestic responsibility stresses equality and independence

Net name: Wing male 1981 stranger
No matter the male, still be a female, should bear the weight of after marry the obligation that the place before having marriage did not assume. If married in the future, I can use up myself to be able to be assumed more a few.

Pat marry play runs Wu Zhenyu of cut off the gas laughs at Yu Nan quite

Patting in Chongqing heat " double feed write down " , open the rival that beats Wu Zhenyu and heroine Yu Nan to make fun of at present. The reporter heads for Nashanyi yesterday the tree films site visit class, see the runs happily show when patting a two people to marry only, because direct strict requirement of Zhao Tianyu, a distant view was patted 56 times, run Wu Zhenyu and Yu Nan are breathlessly. When accepting reporter special report later, wu Zhenyu says fierce word again, say not to understand why outback director likes to put passionate show in the film, the one side that often lags behind China pats a foreigner to look, make him very furious!

"Protect a flower " very gent

Of the show share depict yesterday is Wu Zhenyu and Yu Nan after two people feeling confronts the crisis, recall the sweet time in the past. The play staff is good to pat this play, individual choice find a view of big bridge of a tree and goose fair cliff. The reporter films in a tree the spot sees, wu Zhenyu is pulling a body to wrap around the Yu Nan of marriage gauze has run from the bridge, the state gives repeatedly when filming, the Yu Nan that wearing marriage gauze is obliged to all over had run from the bridge, wu Zhenyu is forced to be in aside " protect a flower " , have gent demeanor quite.

"Dozen look " very complacent

The reporter returns discovery in the spot, after taking a camera lens, yu Nan is pulling marriage gauze from the bridge that slowly go, wu Zhenyu is incompact 23 meters go slow in Yu Nan back to be in, laugh quite at the same time at the same time sideways the back that the head sees Yu Nan, want Yu Nan to increase skirt base only a few, wu Zhenyu at once bend private parts, "Dozen look " Yu Nan's ham, strong still aside the staff member makes complacent expression.

Character special interview

Wu Zhenyu: Take Chinese backward side I am very furious

Yu Nan: No matter what pat, bear the palm is glad

Film clearance, wu Zhenyu accepted special report of our newspaper reporter, when the problem that whether there is show of a lot of passions in speaking of play, he expresses instantly: "The passionate sport in this play is fallen lowest, don't I know why outback director often loves to put sexual love in the film nevertheless? My this individual compares Plato, do do not understand. Do do not understand..

Wu Zhenyu says further: "The one side that outback director still likes to pat China to lag behind looks to foreigner, take next go winning a prize abroad, I am not clear really, love to look because of the foreigner namely, are we about to pat? I am very furious to such phenomenon! I am very furious to such phenomenon!!

Critically inland directs Wu Zhenyu to always love to film backward one side is in abroad bear the palm, yu Nan not approve of, "No matter what pat, as long as it is Chinese bear the palm I am very glad. I feel this is to reveal our distinctive culture, cannot saying is backward. " she still expresses, film in these hard places more, she can be cherished more.

Oneself must ask three question before marrying

Do maintain, decide feast, decorate bridal chamber... the day that awaits wedding every minutes of every second is happy sweetness! Just face the life with completely different future, are you ready really?
Case: The future that plans hard, make me terrified and disturbed
I am an everything must in perfect order person, e.g. weekday in the evening must next week everyday program has been arranged; Before travel 3 months are about to engineer the detail problem of this journey, the its arrange each respect is appropriate; The rubbish bag in the home must be covered shipshapely go up in paper basket, take out to go to the lavatory every time. Prepare even which years to change a big house even, go which years what kind of school assiduously studies a graduate student, suit which years to marry, be come out by my early plan.
The program was full of everywhere in my life, as a whole the thing of such. What may actual condition can not arrange like me is accurate in that way, still feel more dependable in the heart nevertheless. Once next content is good without arrangement, with respect to meeting angst, uneasiness, be utterly confused.
Appear recently this kind of feeling is even more serious, a bagatelle did not get ready, can feel future did not have a hope even! The friend beside says me sex of this kind of consecution close to at morbid state, in myself heart very clear, I already very exercised restraint hard, always cannot avoid the fluster that this kind of morbid state brings to me and angst however, especially the closest period of time, the worry that faces love lets me feel this kind of angst is more serious, every night I insomnious, body and mind suffers torment.
The boy friend is older than me 20 years old, it is American. I suspect friendship between generations all the time before, be attracted deeply by him however now. But he wants recall United States to work immediately, should manage here the thing of the company goes next year with respect to preparation now the United States and he marries. Tell from emotive angle, I like him very much, be willing to marry with him, but from a lot of otherer respect, I do not know such doing is right choice. If I marry him, can you regret later? I ability is 23 years old, marry can too early? Went to the United States, how should I live? Apply for a job, still do full-time wife? Manage different land personally, without any kin friends, how to suffer grievance to do? Can he take care of my one's whole life really? I am completely unthinkable that meeting is what appearance, the life that plans previously also all was thrown into confusion, did not have step-by-step rhythm, how should I live? I have one to plant ineffable panic-stricken. Entered an inky environment as going, what can knowing one pace is stridden be, want to be afraid of more more, cannot move.
But I also cannot leave her really now, he is the person that my only likes truly certainly. Although he compares a bank in ocean, we hold to everyday chat on the net say good morning good night. I am absent, he does not meet other woman absolutely. He has said a lot of a solemn pledge of love, I believed easily, but it is too good that my friend says I am too babyish cheated. I always am now ceaselessly self-condemned, face unpredictable future, not differentiate force is mixed 1:0 ability of urgent meet an emergency, if I can resemble other girl same, work decisive, reaction is alert and resourceful this are much better ah, I hate myself really! Think of our future, the all the time is not holding to with abandon between anguish is wandering...

-- terrified and disturbed graceful

Dispel misgivings: Enter marriage, you are ready?
Dear, be life to order calm size to plan is not clammy, want to fasten excessive angst only, this is kind of dependable good convention actually; Matter to oneself marital important matter especially, the likelihood should carry Jing Yuan on the back to go to the seas and oceans from countryside, can you try to plan again carelessly how?
Above all, must want to remind you -- marrying is two people even two family ties is affined important matter, ought not to ask by him absolutely you " processing is over the thing of the company goes next year with respect to preparation now the United States and he marries " , such manner, too do not respect you and your family, besides too cursory besides, whether to also have some " old man creed " cause trouble? Do not know him to had communicated relevant details adequately with you? Of course you foretell impossibly also " if I marry him, can you regret later? " the following thing, it is a variety of change that produce after two people get along completely, consider marriage not happy, also be to be based on two people relation to manage not to be pooh-poohed, can you regret to marry him conversely how again? When in your consideration this great life is chosen, ask you be sure to the following 3 problems, arrange most devoted to inner feeling:
One, you did each other suit to marry?
He is bigger than you 20 years old, have the marital relation that has not handle or affection dispute? Have children? And are you also willing? If be only a pair pure love each other the men and women that be in love, the circumstance is gotten simply much, need to consider to wish to not be willing only terminative each other single life. Of course also one send a statement, think decision marriage must rely on some of impulse, otherwise apprehension is too much can hesitate to move forward; But the most mature practice, still need to consider instantly the state such as each other health, economy, family, job, if the other side makes a person a little not dare the abuse of ask advice (for example the) such as drug taking, gamble, excessive drinking, violate the law and commit crimes, cannot let love give absolutely developed a head. 　
2, is he the target that you miss to marry?
If hold in the arms,holding want others " take care of my one's whole life " this kind of idea, be afraid all one's life the target that also cannot find ideal. Since resolved should marry, also get preparative one's whole life to give aid to each other of course! And this person that will become your partner, do you understand him quite? Did he spend idea to understand you as much? Does he grow to from what kind of family reach setting? His individual character how? Have why hobby? Is he can you bear the person of the setback? Does he wish to not be willing to be the same as your hardships and difficulties and in all? View of his viewpoint of value, society, international view and you roughly conform to? Does your family accept him? Does his family like you? These will affect the factor of your life quality in the future, must clear up ability travel beforehand. Occasionally time of journey that gets along thick and fast, will promotional each other understanding; Or of period of time live together, try marriage, also can disclose hidden problem.